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I’m Stefanie. Stefanie.
I deeply believe that you already know very well what’s going on with you. And yes, it can feel very scary to go there.
Together we are stronger. I see you. I see your intelligence, your success, and the strength with which you analyze everything. But I also see the restlessness that lies beneath, the feeling of being stuck. You are warmly welcome in my practice in Arnhem to explore those scary places together, in complete safety.
My story
From knowing to feeling
For many years, I mostly lived in my head. As a coach and trainer, I helped others move forward, but I felt there was a deeper layer we weren’t reaching — and I myself kept getting stuck in overthinking. I knew behavior came from somewhere, but I lacked the tools to get there in a safe way. I wanted to go beyond just ‘putting on band-aids.’
The real turning point was my training as a therapist. It was the revelation that knowing is not the same as feeling. Only when I learned not just to analyze my own patterns but also to truly experience them in my body, did space open up for lasting change. That liberation is the reason why I do this work now.
My vision & approach
My work is based on a number of clear principles.

You are the expert
See me as a guide in your own museum. You are the expert of your life; I walk ahead with a little flag and shine a light on the important pieces.

From head to heart
The key to change is shifting from knowing to feeling. Together, we work on getting out of your head and rediscovering the wisdom of your body and emotions.

Being able to continue on your own
My goal is for you to move forward in your own strength. Everything in my guidance is focused on strengthening your autonomy, resilience, and responsibility.
Education & qualifications
My background and expertise
A solid foundation is essential for providing high-quality and responsible guidance. I continuously develop myself through additional training and intervision to offer the best possible support.
• Academy for Psychodynamics (Psychodynamic Therapist in training)
• De Galan School for Training (Certified Trainer)
• Dubbel EE Acting Service (Certified Training Actor)
• Specializations in among others, Bodywork, Systemic Work, Inner Parts Work, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
• Member of professional associations VBAG and RBCZ


